Online for Author Episode 2-21-26

​Fathers, Silence, and Second Chances: Journey Through Loss and Forgiveness with Author Steven Scott Eichenblatt

​In a recent episode of Online for Authors, I had the incredible opportunity to sit down with Steven Scott Eichenblatt, the author of the thought-provoking memoir "Pretend They Are Dead." This captivating conversation delved into the deeply personal stories that shaped his writing and the emotional complexities surrounding his journey.

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An Intimate Look at the Memoir
From the outset, Steven’s memoir stands as a poignant exploration of his childhood traumas and challenges as well as his growth through them. "Pretend They Are Dead" covers the abandonment by his biological father, a turbulent adoption process, and his experiences with overcoming significant obstacles. However, Steven skillfully intertwines these heavy themes with humor, such as the delightful chapter about his dog, providing readers with a balanced and engaging narrative.

Motivation to Write a Memoir
One might wonder what drives someone to pen such a personal memoir. Steven shared that his writing began as a therapeutic exploration during a challenging period in his life. With insights from family therapy and the rediscovery of his deceased biological father's writings, Steven’s passion for compiling his own stories grew organically. What started as notes in a black notebook evolved into a full-fledged memoir, serving not only as a means of healing for Steven but also as an inspiration for others.

The Impact of Family Dynamics
Family relationships are a prevalent theme in Steven’s memoir, as well as a significant aspect of our discussion. Despite the sometimes mixed reactions from family members, Steven highlighted his mother’s supportive stance, acknowledging the understanding they have reached over time. His openness about using fictional names and offering pre-publication insights to his twin sister illustrated his consideration for family dynamics in his storytelling.

Forging a New Path as a Father
Steven’s turbulent childhood experiences greatly influenced his parenting style. Determined to provide a nurturing and supportive environment for his children, he emphasized the importance of being present and involved in their lives. His commitment to breaking the cycle of estrangement and abuse has not only shaped his role as a father but also his work as a trial lawyer, often representing children pro bono.

On Continuing the Writing Journey
For those curious if "Pretend They Are Dead" would be a solitary venture, Steven assured us that his writing journey is just beginning. Having already removed several stories from the memoir to streamline its narrative, he indicated a wealth of material yet to be explored. Steven’s enthusiasm for writing and the prospect of future projects show no signs of waning, suggesting that readers may see more from him in the future.

Steven Scott Eichenblatt’s memoir, "Pretend They Are Dead," offers readers an opportunity to dive deep into a narrative rich with emotional exploration and healing. As an author myself, I found our conversation not only enlightening but also resonant with shared experiences. I invite you to explore this poignant memoir and consider its potential impact on your own understanding of trauma, healing, and storytelling.

For more insights into writing and author interviews, join the Novels N Latte Book Club on Facebook, where you can engage with fellow readers and have a chance to win a digital copy of Steven’s book. Until next time, keep reading and writing your own stories of resilience and redemption.

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